Coconut Oil Follow Up–
includes chocolate so read on

I know I wrote about coconut oil before, but I had to add some things and change my opinion on other things because of what I’ve learned since.

First of all, I have tried several different brands of coconut oil, and I find their flavors/aromas fall into two categories: those that smell like coconut and those that smell like perfume (i.e. inedible, and not a pleasant perfume either). Though other people I’ve had smell them do not always perceive them as such, so apparently you have to develop your own opinion. And if you tried coconut oil and didn’t like it, you might want to give it another chance with a different brand.

LouAna, Nutiva, coconut oils

I like the brands Nutiva and Lou Ana, but I really don’t like the taste or smell of these odd brands I’ve tried (such as Parachute or Hope’s Harvest). I’ll use them as a moisturizer or bath oil until they’re used up, but they taste pretty odd in food.

low fat oven pancakes

Next, I have to confess about my post on making Oven Pancakes with coconut oil. By far the best way I’ve now found to make them is without any oil/butter at all. I spray the pan with cooking spray, but don’t preheat it. So it’s easier to make and so much better for you. (Unless you are a believer in consuming as much coconut oil as possible, which I currently am not.)

About all the health claims. I get two very scientifically based health newsletters (the University of California, Berkeley Wellness Letter and Nutrition Action), and both of them came out with an article about coconut oil in their June 2012 issues. Primarily they were addressing the recent health claims about coconut oil and Alzheimer’s and both used the scientific evidence at hand to show that coconut oil does not slow cognitive decline (even though it apparently worked really well for the husband of the lady who wrote the book that started this hype).

There are not enough good tests to demonstrate its health claims (referring to actually eating it) and neither organization would recommend using it in place of other healthy vegetable oils such as olive and canola. They weren’t against its occasional use, though, and my impression from the articles was that it is better for you than other saturated fats (like butter) or any hydrogenated oils.

There may be some other good things about coconut. I recently read an article about coconut oil and oral hygiene that made coconut oil sound great. But it seems that generally, health science just hasn’t figured out what to think of coconut oil yet. You can often use less coconut oil than a recipe calls for of butter or margarine, which would cut down on calories.

Lastly, I have found a way I really like to use coconut oil that doesn’t work with any other ingredient I know of: making your own “Magic Shell” like ice cream topping! Since coconut oil is solid at 75 degrees or below, it melts with a slight boost in temperature, and quickly hardens when you put it on something cold like ice cream. I got this recipe from Our Best Bites, and I have tried it a few times already. (But I’ll have to put in some pictures, so I guess I’ll have to go make some more!)

homemade hardening chocolate sauce using coconut oil

Take a small glass dish, pour in some chocolate chips and add a spoonful of coconut oil. (For you measurers, I used 1/2 cup chips and maybe 2 tsp oil this time, but it’s pretty flexible.)

melted chips

Microwave a little (I did 30 seconds) and stir. When they come out of the microwave, they won’t look melted, but stirring will make a big difference.

melted chips

Drizzle over ice cream. If you’re a cheap skate like I am and never buy the commercial stuff, your kids will be impressed. And if you do, and you tell them you did it yourself, they’ll still be impressed.

I used a glass dish that had a lid, so I just put the lid on and leave it in the cupboard. If your house is chilly (or if it’s winter), you may have to pop it in the microwave for a few seconds and stir again. I’m not sure since I’ve only been making this this summer.

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Mess is Best in Arts and Crafts — But Not in MY kitchen!

We all know that kids learn by mess and play. It’s about the process not the product, about being able to do things their own way to develop their creativity and problem-solving. But trying to convince me that mess is best in my own kitchen is not as easy — sometimes I’m not so sure I want gobs of glue, shimmers of glitter, and plops of paint all over my house — no matter how washable they advertise.

Not to deprive my children of their artistic and psychological growth, I’ve come up with a fair compromise of how to manage these mediums and my control-freak sanity.

Glue: Grab a plastic container lid and wrap it in tin foil for easy clean up. Pour a tablespoon or so in the lid and use a paint brush to spread the glue. When they’re done, peel off the tin foil and throw away. Done. Easy clean up. And Mom is still happy.

I also REALLY love these glue tips that I bought from my son’s preschool teacher. It attaches to your everyday glue bottle. The kids press the tip on the paper and the glue comes out in a dab. It’s called Tap ‘N Glue and is sold on Amazon for 99 cents for two.

Paint: Pour paint colors into an empty egg carton. This gives the kids just the right amount of paint, and less chance of mixing colors before getting on the paper!

Glitter: Keep your glitter in salt and pepper shakers– typically the glitter comes out more slowly and it is easier to control. Otherwise, do glittery activities over a 9×13 pan with paper at the bottom (construction paper, wax paper, tin foil all work well). This will help to catch the extra glitter from falling on your floor, and you can gather up the unused glitter and funnel it back into its container for future use.

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Best-o Pesto

I served this pesto for dinner shortly after my girls devoured some delicious cookies. Believe it or not, my girls all commented, “Wow, this pasta is better than cookies!!”

As pesto is usually a combination of basil, olive oil, garlic, and parmesan cheese, and sometimes pine nuts, I find it to be quite strong. So I cut down the basil a bit and substitute it with spinach and broccoli. It is quite good….perhaps even better than cookies! And for sure it’s definitely a lot healthier and more mild than the traditional pesto.

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Take it from her — it’s the best pesto!!

I have adapted (perfected?) the recipe from The Joy of Cooking. Here’s my version:

Process in a food processor to a rough paste:

3/4 c basil leaves

3/4 c spinach (best if fresh)

1/2 c broccoli (pre-steamed for only 1 1/2 minutes)

2 garlic cloves

1/2 c parmesan cheese (not Kraft – get the real stuff — you’ll be glad you spent the extra buck or two)

With the machine running, add

1/2 c extra-virgin olive oil. For a healthier version, you can add 1/4 c. olive oil and 1/4 c. chicken broth.

Serve on warm pasta. Serving cookies before dinner, optional.

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Free Museum Day!

I just found out about this and had to post about it. Hundreds of museums throughout the nation will be free on Saturday, September 29th thanks to Smithsonian Magazine. All you’ve got to do is click here and request your tickets. Each ticket is valid for 2 people. You can get 1 ticket per valid email address. Lots of great museums across the map are listed.

Hope you enjoy it and have fun!

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Online Computer Backup: Carbonite

I have been married for almost 8 years. In those 8 years, we have had 4 computer crashes. Four complete computer meltdowns. Where we've lost everything. The first time it happened, I had just returned from a study abroad in New Zealand and lost ALL my digital pictures. Thank goodness my friends had taken pictures too and I had already printed those that I took.

The next three times hurt bad. All our pictures, all our files. I wised up after the second time and started burning our pictures and important files to CD, but because it relied on me, I wasn't caught up when the third and fourth crashes happened. After the fourth time, when we lost some very special, priceless, and sentimental files, my husband and I looked at each other and asked "When will we learn?" That day, we signed up for Carbonite.

Carbonite is an online backup program. It will automatically backup all the files on your computer (except videos, which you can tell it to backup manually). If your computer crashes, all your files are safe. You can even access all your files from another computer, just by logging in. I love this feature, since I often want to access recipes or pictures when I'm not at home.

Carbonite also offers external backup, but we haven't tried that. Mainly because I know my user error record. I know I would forget to backup and therefore I would be out of luck. Plus, if your house burns down or floods, there goes the external backup.

Another great thing is that you can access your Carbonite account from your Smartphone, too. Simple, easy, and guaranteed.

I can't tell you the difference it makes to have peace of mind.

Try Carbonite for free! And then, if you love it, you can sign up and receive 2 free months!

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Learn a Phrase in Chinese

"hao" the Chinese character that means "Good"

My high school junior is in Chinese 3 this year, and I have not taken advantage of this learning opportunity as much as I would like. Chinese is the hot language to learn nowadays.

So here’s what I’m going to learn today. And try my best to remember tomorrow. (Sadly, I’ve learned this several times but forgotten it. I’m hoping that by posting it, I will remember better.) Will my teenager be impressed?

There are tons of videos like this online. One thing I like about this one in particular is that she explains what each word means. It helps me to actually understand the words, instead of just get the English translation.

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I Love this Shark Vacuum

For many years I’ve been a Dyson user. I found it frustrating to use, but having been sold by Dyson’s pitch of being “the best vacuum in the world”, I was hesitant to settle for anything less.

Well, when I was at my sister in law’s house a couple of months ago, both my mother in law and sister in law were telling me, “you’ve gotta try out Sara’s new vacuum — it is awesome.” I’m thinking, come on, guys, how cool can a vacuum be? Well, I tried it and was convinced and bought one when I got home. But my husband was still a skeptic. I told him to try it, and he said he would, but “let’s keep the box so we can return it after”.

We didn’t end up returning it. It’s the…

vacuum

Shark Navigator Professional Lift-Away Vacuum Cleaner – Model NV356E

(And be sure you get the “Lift-Away” one, not just the “Shark Professional”.)

What makes the vacuum so cool? I’ll give you the Top Seven:

1. It is LIGHTWEIGHT and SMALL, making it easy to clean tight places and store in small spaces.

2. The base SWERVES to get into tight spaces

3. It is EASY to use. Dyson prides itself on simplicity of use, but I found it over complicated. Maybe they over-thought things. The Shark Professional Lift-Away vacuum makes sense.

4. It has a POWERFUL suction — just as good as the Dyson we used to use.

5. It has a floor attachment with a microfiber cloth attached behind the sucking mechanism to DEEP CLEAN your floors. Living near the beach, we get a lot of dust and fine dirt on our floors. Especially with a baby crawling around, I have found this extremely helpful in getting our floors super – clean — “white sock” clean. LOVE this.

6. The bottom base ( the carpet vacuum part) can become detached. I love this because it can then be used as a VACUUM FOR YOUR CAR.

7. It is relatively INEXPENSIVE. At $200, it rivals $400+ vacuums in performance and user-friendliness.

My sister-in-law described the vacuum by saying, “it’s like Shark took all the suggestions of people using vacuums and used them all into one vacuum.” I agree. So may I echo my sister in law’s advice — try theShark Navigator Professional Lift-Away Vacuum Cleaner — you’ll love it.

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Spice up School Lunches

I don’t know if you’re like me, but it seems like after a few weeks of school, I am out of ideas for my kids’ school lunches. I can’t seem to think of anything besides PB and J and they’re sick of it by now. So, I’ve drummed up some new ideas which, so far, seem to be a hit. And, with such a variety of yummy dishes in their lunch, they no longer complain about the occasional traditional PB and J. Here are my top ten. Feel free to add.

1. Dip Day-My kids love to dip things…ANYTHING. Literally. My 8-year old doesn’t care what he’s eating as long as he’s dipping it in something. Which is what gave me the idea of Dip Day. One day a week is dip day. Veggies in Ranch, Chips in Salsa, Pitas in Hummus, Fruit in Carmel or Yogurt, Grilled Chicken Tenders in Honey Mustard Sauce, Crackers in a soft cheese, carrots and celery sticks in Peanut Butter (yes, I said carrots in Peanut Butter…try it. It really is good).

2. Cracker Sandwiches. My kids love cracker sandwiches. Go figure. They don’t really love ham, turkey or cheese on bread, but cut it up into little pieces and serve it with Ritz crackers and they think they’re in heaven. I send cut up pieces of each in separate bags and let them create their own sandwiches.

3. Roll-ups or Pinwheels. Ditch the bread. Instead lay out a flour tortilla. Spread with a thin layer of cream cheese or hummus. Place ham, turkey, cheese, lettuce, etc. on top and roll. Either leave as a roll or cut into circles for pinwheels.

4. Hot Day-I’m not sure if all schools are like this, but ours allows access to an microwave for kids in 3rd grade and above. For these kiddos, I send leftover hot food like pizza, grilled chicken, spaghetti….whatever they love from the night before.

5. Incredible Sides. I used to think that somehow a sandwich had to make it into the lunch to make it a complete meal. But, then I realized, it just needs to be balanced, with protein, fruits, veggies, carbs and dairy. With that I have one day that’s just amazing sides. I start with trail mix with mixed nuts and dried fruits. Add a yogurt, some veggie sticks, and a piece of fruit, and I’m set. They like having lots of choices and they fill up quickly.

6. Kabobs-Thread chunks of ham, chicken or turkey, cheese, fruit or cherry tomatoes on a skewer. The kids are bound to have fun threading them off. Why is that the more they get to touch their food the more they love it?

7. Pitas-As far as I’m concerned, Pitas are like suitcases. You just stuff them as full as you can with whatever you’ve got. Somehow, because they are pitas, they love them. I’ve done pepperoni, cheese and pizza sauce (especially if they can heat it up), deli meat, cheese, lettuce and tomato, rice, beans, cheese and salsa, taco meat and toppings. It’s the perfect way to get creative.

8. Bagels-Instead of bread for club sandwiches, go for bagels or bagel thins. Or just send bagels and cream cheese.

9. Spice Up the PB and J– Admittedly, we still eat a lot of PB and J, but the kids like it a lot more if it’s not on the traditional bread. Instead, spread it on graham crackers for a special treat. Or, a rice cake for a healthier alternative that kids LOVE! (It’s my kids’ personal favorite).

10. If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s variety. Have a bunch of things on hand so every day is something new: nuts, chips, crackers, cheeses, fruits, muffins, granola bars, dried fruit, veggies, yogurts. Grab new sides and mains each day and they’re bound to love it.

Add a few jokes or notes to the lunchbox, and you’ll be supermom in their eyes. Check out Kerri’s post for some great ideas and a free printable.

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Eczema and Baths

As many of you know, my daughter struggles with eczema. Sometimes we have it under control, and other times, it is out of control. This summer, it has gotten progressively worse, and I haven’t been able to figure out why.

I came up with a few hypothesis, but they were proved incorrect. Then, I had an “a-ha” moment and realized that the biggest thing that has changed this summer is our bathing routine. Whereas she used to bathe every day, she is now bathing once a week.

“But shouldn’t kids with eczema stay away from baths?” Well, that’s a misconception a lot of people have, even doctors. Kids with good skin should bathe 2-3 times a week, so they do not dry out their skin. They can have bubble baths and use really hot water. Kids with eczema should bathe daily in warm water with no soap.

Baths naturally open up the pores to allow them to accept moisturizers, like lotions or oils. Plus, with the bathing, dead skin is removed. So for a kid with eczema, not bathing means a build up of the bad skin and poor absorption of the many lotions, ointments, creams, steroids, and oils that you are lathering on in hopes to calm the flare ups.

The key to successful bathing for kids with eczema is 5-20 minutes in warm water, not hot, and no soap. We found bathing at night was not just relaxing, but it has become almost necessary since it makes her skin fresh and soothed, meaning she can sleep a lot better. Let your child soak in the tub and then pat to dry. Immediately, within 2-3 minutes of getting out of the bath, apply moisturizer. We use olive oil because it works the best for her, but use whatever non-scented moisturizer you prefer.

If you’re child responds like ours, you will see almost instant improvement. We started bathing her 10 days ago and after 6 weeks of terrible skin, she started looking and feeling mostly normal again after just 2 days. Now, it has been 10 days and she doesn’t have a trace of eczema on her arms, bottom, thighs, backs of knees, back, or tummy. She has a tiny bit on her lower legs, but hardly at all. She is no longer spending most of her days itching, which means she can focus on being a kid.

For more information about eczema, check out these other FRM posts:

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Back-to-School Homework for Parents

One thing I don’t enjoy about beginning the school year is the piles of paperwork the kids bring home for me to do. Emergency cards, volunteer surveys, and most of all, (we get this most with the middle schoolers) the reading of multiple (often lengthy) syllabi and signing that I had read over it all with my child and we agree to it all. (“We went over the whole thing in class already, Mom!”)

The one part of this I do appreciate, is when the language arts teacher includes a list of what they are reading that year. So when I was asked to sign that particular handout this year, I went straight to our library website, which is what I meant to do last year, and reserved a few of the things my illusive, witty, yet challenging middle-schooler will be reading this year.

Now when I ask at the dinner table, “What are you learning about in school?” and he answers, “Nothing,” I have a little more to go on than that. “Have you gotten to the part about Boo Radley yet?” (To Kill a Mockingbird is on his list.) I also have something to go on if I get the classic “We’re reading this pointless book.”

Fortunately, I like reading, and at this phase in life, it is a treat to take the time at all. For me, audio books are my most likely chance to read much of anything. I find that the middle school books literature teachers choose are usually quite good, so if I haven’t read it before, I’m glad to take advantage of the opportunity that also gives me the chance to get a little involved in my child’s education.

I also like to occasionally find a book in Spanish, which lets me work on that part of my own education also. If you learned (or are learning) a second language, I recommend reading books in the target language (something at an easier level than you can read in your native language) .

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